Build personal boundary

Background:for myself, I'm annoying after a debate, that will make me think too much, I said this in past articles, such like this. Then I find a conc


关于一次断网事故的记录

起因公司无法连接远程的测试服务器,由于怀疑是之前的软路由出了问题从而引发的一系列不过脑子的折腾……实际的处理流程由于软路由是公司最新添加的网络设备,这个问题之前从未出现过,故将软路由接出(造成第一次断网)在将软路由接出公司网络以后,似乎就没有了问题,然而下午问题在没有软路由设备的情况下再次出现发现公


Before 2021

When you talk about something empty like nothing, there gets a lots of words, they seem could show my ambition and make me look like aggressive. So I


Barrier in communication

Sometimes, discussion will become a debate.I don't like debate, especially with friend or someone around, here are some of the reasons:The winner of d


Leaving is a lie

Long times ago, I said I would leave someday, it's only a few friends know that.Perhaps it's time now, the situation becomes worse and worse, I can't


After classmate's wedding

It perhaps would be a mess, I just write what I thought.Try to More thinking less feeling. (feeling often lead self-doubt)It's a public post, but it's


人为什么会陷入「如果你不主动找我,就算我想跟你说话也不主动找你」的模式?

我们发现有这样困扰的人似乎很多。犹豫着不敢开始/加入谈话的顾虑大概有:总觉得自己说的话会破坏气氛,觉得没人希望我站在这儿。想要加入谈话时,但觉得自己想说的话一点儿也不“有趣”,别人应该不爱听吧。大家聊天的时候我就像在等一个“谈话红绿灯”,总想等到我可以说话的绿灯时间,但绿灯太短,我抓不住……如果我先


2019年,对我来说,一台理想的手机应该是怎样的

为什么突然想说这个?站长目前使用的是一台小米6,在此之前是高考那段时间买的三星S6,这两台手机都是发布后个人非常喜欢然后购买的,现在米6也快用两年了,虽然性能尚可,但多少有些审美疲劳想换手机,但是发现目前市面上却找不到一台让我心动的手机了那它应该是什么样子呢?全面屏在我看来,全面屏使得手机屏占比变高