Barrier in communication

Sometimes, discussion will become a debate.I don't like debate, especially with friend or someone around, here are some of the reasons:The winner of d


Leaving is a lie

Long times ago, I said I would leave someday, it's only a few friends know that.Perhaps it's time now, the situation becomes worse and worse, I can't


After classmate's wedding

It perhaps would be a mess, I just write what I thought.Try to More thinking less feeling. (feeling often lead self-doubt)It's a public post, but it's


人为什么会陷入「如果你不主动找我,就算我想跟你说话也不主动找你」的模式?

我们发现有这样困扰的人似乎很多。犹豫着不敢开始/加入谈话的顾虑大概有:总觉得自己说的话会破坏气氛,觉得没人希望我站在这儿。想要加入谈话时,但觉得自己想说的话一点儿也不“有趣”,别人应该不爱听吧。大家聊天的时候我就像在等一个“谈话红绿灯”,总想等到我可以说话的绿灯时间,但绿灯太短,我抓不住……如果我先